1. You talk too much. People may avoid you rather than risk that you will disrespect their time with a half hour of verbiage about you.

2. You don’t say enough. People may avoid you because their perception is that you have secret thoughts and that you don’t trust them enough to share them.

3. You’re a negative person. People realize that they usually feel worse about life and themselves when they’ve spent time with you.

Could this be YOU? Find someone who loves you enough to be honest with you and ask them.